Because pulling off the perfect surprise is still possible when you share a Google calendar.

Pulling off a surprise proposal when you live together (or spend all your time together) feels like planning a heist. Especially if your partner is the planner in the relationship, and especially if you’re the go-with-the-flow one.

But here’s the thing: with the right strategy, a solid team behind you, and a little intentional deceit, you can absolutely plan a surprise proposal in Austin, and it will blow them away.

Whether you’re sharing a one-bedroom apartment, a dog, or just the same Target account, we’ve got the inside tips to help you keep the secret and plan a proposal that feels just as thoughtful as it does surprising.

Don’t Do It Alone (& Definitely Don’t DIY)

The number one tip? Bring in a proposal planner. You don’t have to juggle surprise logistics, scouting locations, booking vendors, or Googling how many rose petals are too many.

When you work with us at Amore Austin, we handle everything behind the scenes, design, setup, timing, and even the backup plan, so all you have to do is show up and drop to one knee.

Your partner is already the one planning the vacations and checking the dinner reservations. Let this be your moment to lead the way… and blow them away.

Use Your Routine To Your Advantage

Living together gives you one huge perk: you know their schedule better than anyone.

Use that to plan something that feels seamless and natural, like a walk after brunch at your usual spot that just so happens to end in a private setup. Or a casual date night that suddenly turns into the real date of a lifetime.

The key is choosing something that won’t make them suspicious but still gives you the space for a wow-worthy reveal.

Phone A Friend (Or Their Sister, Coworker, Or BFF)

Getting your partner out of the house (and dressed up without catching on) can be tricky. This is where a trusted friend or family member becomes clutch.

Loop them in as your decoy. Maybe they plan a fake girls’ day, suggest dinner plans, or stage a distraction while we’re busy setting up the proposal location. Just make sure they’re someone your partner won’t suspect, and someone who can keep a secret.

Be Smart With Hiding Spots

If you’re hiding the ring at home, do not put it in the sock drawer. They will find it.

Instead, stash it somewhere they’d never look, like your work bag, toolbox, or a secure lockbox (yes, it’s worth it). If you’re working with us, you can always hand it off beforehand so it’s ready and waiting at the proposal site.

We’ve helped clients pull off proposals with shared closets, nosy pets, and tiny apartments. Trust us, we’ve got you covered.

Keep The Celebration Going

When the surprise moment is over, give yourselves time to soak it all in. We always recommend following the proposal with a cozy dinner, a champagne toast, or even a mini celebration with friends and family. We’ll make sure your proposal doesn’t just end with a yes… it continues with wow.

We’re Here To Help You Pull Off The Ultimate Surprise!

You don’t need to be the planner in the relationship to plan a proposal that knocks their socks off. You just need a little guidance, a lot of heart, and the right people in your corner.

We specialize in helping busy, overwhelmed, and not-so-detail-oriented people create unforgettable, romantic proposals that feel effortless and deeply personal. (Even when your partner knows everything.)

Let’s plan the surprise together. Book your complimentary call to tell us about your partner, and let us take care of the rest.